Module 1 ยท Lesson 1

Why Conflicts Happen at Work

โฑ 8 min

Conflict arises from unmet needs, mismatched expectations, resource scarcity, or communication breakdowns. It's not inherently bad โ€” healthy conflict surfaces important issues and drives better decisions when managed well.

The Thomas-Kilmann model identifies five conflict styles: Competing, Collaborating, Compromising, Avoiding, and Accommodating. Each style has its place, but defaulting to one style in all situations leads to poor outcomes.

๐Ÿ’ก Quick Tips

  • Address conflicts early โ€” small issues compound into major crises.
  • Separate the problem from the person: 'We have a problem' not 'You are the problem'.
  • Find common ground first: 'We both want this project to succeed โ€” let's figure out how.'